In my clinical work as a psychotherapist, healer and counselling I often went to the hospice. There are many wonderful experiences, perhaps some to follow the main points are ; those who did not want to depart, the family wanted them to go, those who wanted to go and the family did not.
In many cases when the family went for a cup of tea or something, the person who wanted to go---went. Sometimes they would say would you get them to go out for a while and I would suggest a break. The family were holding them back and of course those that wanted to stay and the family wanted them to go or stay could cause a very slow and laborious exit.
I will not give the ways I facilitated the departures as this is sacred. I did learn and adapt many 'departure' aids and was known as a mid husband for the dying, I did work at times with a dear friend BS if she reads this she will know her initials and we called her the midwife for the dying. Many aids I learned from my Sensei / Sifu and Tibetan Monks.
BS and I both could write a book on the very beautiful and lovely times spent with those splendid people who we were honoured to serve in the last weeks, hours and minutes of their Life on Earth's sojourn and journey.
We found even those in a Coma's and heavily sedated would respond'
It has to be seen to be believed and definitely meditating and being extremely aware and present one could almost feel telepathy of a sort taking place.
It is a blessing to be given the privilege to those departing and the trust of the family, friends and relatives with the person transiting.
If one passes alone and feels to facilitate oneself, breathe in the way the body wishes and feel through the fear and welcome the light and the waves of love that surround you and gently float out on the wave of breath into the ocean of being.
Then the Everlasting Light and Love will welcome you home.
SHACK
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