SHACK 4149 ON WALL

Courtesy Eveminet Communications

 'Mirror, mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all'. from the fairy tale Snow White and the Seven dwarves. I used this several times in workshop presentations, to look into your own face in a mirror without assessing your features and just feel the vibes coming to you whether pleasant or not and then we would share afterwards. What came up and this happened to many workshop attendees feelings and 'knowing's' which did not seem to connect to the vibes felt at the mirror, as if it stirred something deeper and allowed it to surface for cleansing and healing.

When I did this the first few times what came to me was in the sharing and did not seem to fit the mirror feelings that I had lost a few friends and upset some family members and I realised I had foisted upon them a pet theory or pronouncement and would not yield an inch so to speak when challenged and became so obdurate as to offend them and lose them and later on I did forgiveness in the Ho opono pono way and realised I blamed them for not understanding and not seeing my point of view and that my obdurate stance was the cause of the strained family relationship and loss of some friends and acquaintances.

By understanding that my bold and determined stance and not even allowing discussion or some sort of dialogue caused me to feel I was not understood and they were ignorant. My ego demanded sole recognition and my territory my borders were not safe. Indeed I was the creator of my loss and downfall, yet at the time did not see it as a down fall but a victim of their obdurate stances and agendas.  

Over the years and events I have 'softened' and instead of obduration and impenitence and have found compassion through acknowledgement of my own agenda and inculcation. By owning a feeling and agenda and realising what you own you can change but you blame the feelings of being victim through one's own hard line and not allowing a choice, then we become trapped in our own emotions and cause additional karma.

SHACK   aka   GEOFF