SHACK 939 ITS ALL OK

TreadingwithRayner

There is a subtle difference between acceptance and surrender.

 Surrender can be when life seems futile and frustrating and faced with a situation that seems inconceivably insolvable or being blocked and choked at every turn and corner that one surrenders reluctantly, grudgingly and with a bitter taste in ones mouth and maybe plots revenge or just resigns oneself to a morbid slouching mode of 'putting up with it', still a nagging preponderance of being hard done by.

Acceptance is a going with a seemingly strange set of confrontations and with a natural easy attitude of compliance. One does not harbour any thoughts or feelings of frustration nor is one a wimp and just resigned to what is, it is a natural acceptance without thought or connivance that this happens in life and sometimes life throws circumstances at one for no apparent reason.

Sometime after the seemingly adverse events and accepting this is part of life and like the seasons life is variable and cyclical one may see that this was an inverse event and that it came almost in an inverse synchronise spontaneous happening and actually was beneficial, although not so at the time. It brought to one a learning experience, a life coach event and was deeply significant and evolved one in wisdom and understanding and a bonus of more peace of mind and compassion.

Whereas the reluctant surrender and negative feelings clouded the life lessons which were held and seeded in that set of circumstances.

In the long run and indeed the short run Life knows best.

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